MUSINGS
Are You Having Sex Or Giving It?
Becoming a siren wasn’t something I consciously set out to achieve—it was a journey of embracing my natural allure and unapologetic self expression. It’s not just about my appearance or yours; it’s the way I carry myself, the power of my voice, and the depth of my gaze that draw others in. It’s a dance between mystery and authenticity—a balance I’ve mastered to create unforgettable connections and leave an indelible impression!
A Friendly Friend
Usually when a relationship I have falls through the cracks, I spend some time self-reflecting. Did I handle this situation wrong? Could something have been said better? Where did the issue initially begin? Were there signs? Etc, etc. Everyone has falling-out with someone at some point in their lives and I have the every single interaction in a PDF on my tablet. Call it what you want but I call it marking and tracking data to make educated decisions in the future. I have compiled a list of my top ten red flags from all of my relationships with people, good and bad, and wrote down my exact experiences. Here I have listed behavior I have and will continue to reject in the diverse types of people I come across. You can use this as a reference in friendships, mating relationships, with coworkers, family—anyone you need to evaluate. Imagine all “friend/s” you see in this article with parenthesis as these types of “friends” are not your friends, okay? Okay. Let us begin.
Breakfast, Brunch, Lunch, & Dinner Part Two
After my whirlwind day of dating, I found myself reflecting on the experience and what it revealed about me and my dating journey. Each man brought something different to the table—humor, adventure, intellect, and kindness. While the rapid pace was exhilarating, it also highlighted the importance of genuine connection over superficial encounters. learned to trust my instincts, discerning which sparks felt real and which were merely fleeting. The challenge also pushed me out of my comfort zone, teaching me to embrace spontaneity and open myself to new possibilities. As I navigated through laughter, awkward moments, and meaningful conversations, I realized that dating is as much about self-discovery as it is about finding a partner.
Breakfast, Brunch, Lunch & Dinner
In an adventurous twist on modern dating, I decided to challenge myself by going on four dates in one day, each with a different man. From breakfast with a charming police officer to an afternoon walk with an outdoorsy type, and later cocktails with a witty football coach, I embraced the whirlwind of personalities and experiences. Each date offered unique insights into the dating scene and my own preferences, ultimately teaching me about connection, chemistry, and the importance of being open-minded. Read with me as I share the highs, lows, and unexpected surprises of this dating marathon!
Choose Violence, Repent In Hell
So, picture this: you’re at a crossroads, and one path is labeled “Choose Violence” while the other says “Meditate in Peace.” Naturally, you think, “How spicy could it be?” Fast forward to hell, and you’re there, sipping lava lattes while trying to apologize to the universe. “Dear Universe,” you write, “I’m really sorry for that time I threw a chair at my boss. Can we just agree that it was more of a ‘dramatic exit’ situation?”
Creating Space
Building confidence is essential for every woman who wants to stand her ground and refuse to be overlooked. It’s about recognizing your worth and asserting yourself in a world that often tries to diminish it. Being strong doesn’t mean you have to be aggressive; it means knowing when to speak up, set boundaries, and prioritize your own needs. Learn to celebrate your resilience and cultivate the confidence to shine unapologetically!